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Competition,legpulling,grudges,hatred,jealousy,superiority complex and malevolence have deteriorated the order of life from individual to national level. Callousness,selfishness and self-obsession has wiped out love and cooperation from the society. Everyone is concerned with personal gains and benefits only and doesn’t hesitate to harm anything in between. Thanks to capitalism and industrial revolution that even the planet earth is not evaded from the horrific and mean exploitation.
We are facing the dreadful consequence of our deeds in the form of climate change, international disputes and humanitarian crises. If analysed critically , it will be easy to catch the one word problem of all this pandorabox i.e selfishness.
Selfcare is the most important,integral and fundamental principle of living a joyous,contented and blithe life. Self-care helps us realize our real potential, protect us from toxicities by setting boundaries and assists in resuscitation of energy in case of disappointments or challenges. But mostly it is being wronged with self obsession and selfishness. Selfishness precipitates discontent,hatred and negative boundary. When in self care ,you take care of your rights by positive boundary ,in selfishness you exploit others for personal gains.
The code of life determines the course of life, attribute of personality and nature of actions. It tells about the way of living and way of interacting. I always say that being human ,our life is not confined to ourself only. The highly developed nervous system and a virtual system of feelings and emotions distinguishes us from other creatures and hence binds many obligations on us as well.
The code of life in easy way means purpose of life . What you want from your life. My code of life is “ Live and ease the life”. My life is confined to these five words .No matter, whatever situation is ,I will always abide by it. My code of life is not so simple but dynamic and have deep meaning encompassing all the possibilities and aspects Let me elaborate me code of life.
As I have stated earlier, self-care is very vital for the integrity of personality . So I don’t quit this at any stage of life . I believe one who do not love himself,cannot love others. According to me self-care ks taking care of all of your physical ,spiritual ,emotional and materialistic needs. Fulfilling legit desires and needs, stabilising mental and physical health and setting boundaries from outer toxicities are the panacea of every life complexity under the pretext of self-love. Abandoning it will make you more prone to vulnerabilities.This is the first part of my code of life.
Another part of my code of life is “ease the life”. It means easing the life of those who are around you. It means spreading positivity,happiness and love instead of negativite,gloomy spooks and hatred. This part of my code also urges to try to increase the standard of life as well by raising awareness, by assisting and helping needies and by taking eco-friendly step as well lest at individual level .
Live and ease the life is a code which is baaed on ethical principles rather than any religious or political ones. This code of life asks me to love my self and support the life of other as well. It discourages both neglecting myself and disturbing others. This code of life is all about facilitation and felicitation. My life abides by this code of life completely and this is the reason that till date I have not faced any real life heartbreaks,deceits and serious challenges.
I can’t deny the importance of money but my life is not solely for money. Money is just a way of bringing comfort to life. I am not obsessed with piling up of wealth. With my code “Live and ease the life” I believe in striving to get comfort in present, serving the society and positvely impact on other individuals.
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