It is very normal for people to make mistakes, especially for people in relationships, since mistakes are a part of our lives which we constantly learn from. When mistakes are made, correction needs to be made with love, after all loving someone means that we understand that this person has flaws and weaknesses and we are willing to accommodate them.
Unfortunately, cheating is not one of such mistakes. Considering cheating a mistake would be very poor 'choice of words' because cheating is a very deliberate action. It is an action that requires pre-planning before execution hence it will be a mistake to say that your partner really feels sorry when caught in the act of cheating.
When people apologise after being caught cheating, I do not consider it a sincere apology. They're simply saying 'I'm sorry' because they were caught and not because they feel sorry for their actions. Not being caught will simply allow them go further. Being caught is also not an assurance that it wouldn't continue. I strongly believe that a cheating partner will always be a cheating partner, hence it is not in your power to control your partner's faithfulness.
Once my partner cheats on me, I'd simply conclude that whoever my partner cheated on me with is whom my partner is really interested in, while I'm simply a means to an end. As much as I may love her, I wouldn't like to continue such relationship because cheating on me simply means she doesn't love me.
Best thing to do in my opinion is to let such person go. I can never take back a cheating partner.
What would you do?
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Previous videos in the series:
Understanding the African reaction to Pansexuality!
The African Mentality on Women expression
Nigerian women and the mentality of relationships as a means to an end!
A date with eighteen +1 ladies!
The Mentality of control in relationships!
Regards!
uchihanagato!
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