The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. The opposite of art is not ugliness, it's indifference. The opposite of faith is not heresy, it's indifference. And the opposite of life is not death, it's indifference. ~ Ellie Wiesel
Imagine a life filled with indifference. You don't care about the people around you, about yourself and about your future, about anything, really. Doesn't that sound horrible? That doesn't sound like a life lived in depression.
Now imagine loving things and hating things, believing in one thing and not trusting in another. That's normal. Everyone feels positive vibes and negative vibes, and if you hate someone, for instance, you still care about that person or else you wouldn't be so invested in their life.
This quote always reminds me to FEEL, to LIVE and to make the best of life's ups and downs. Be active about how you want to shape your life, say what you want or not want but don't say I don't care.
Especially for me as a very indecisive person, this is hard.
I don't want to make a decision that someone else won't like, so I let them make the decision. But this is my life and saying no to something someone else wants is perfectly healthy and much better than saying nothing at all.