I just realized not long ago that I've never asked myself whether life is hard or easy.
Most people don't gauge their life by how easy or hard it is. They gauge their life by using words like poor, low resources, no reputable status or background, no luck. And I've realized that when they use words that seem more like excuses instead of justification, they're actually cowards that blame their life circumstances on others and not themselves. They don't ask themselves whether they are having a hard or easy life. All they know is to compare themselves to the wealthy and lower their own morale even though their life isn't that bad sometimes, they don't try and see how lucky they are compared to those who are homeless and without proper jobs.
Actually, the right way isn't to compare yourself to anyone else, no matter those above you or below you. You have to learn to ask yourself,
Is the way you're living easy or hard for you?
Then ask yourself why is it so?
If your life is too easy, is it because you don't take the risk and stay comfortably in your comfort zone? Then ask yourself if you like this kinda life, if so then continue, if not, change your mindset and draft a new plan for your life.
If your life is hard, is it because you don't focus on growing? Is it because you live your life buying luxuries and accumulate useless debts more than appreciative assets? Is it because you don't improve your skillset that you don't move forward in your career? Is it because you're too lazy to even start a side hustle?
If you can stop blaming anything and start asking yourself what you lacked in life, and what you need to do to fill up that hole in your life. You'll have started changing your life from that moment because your changed mindset would slowly begin to set a new refreshed path for your life.
I believe, not everyone is as lucky as to be born with a silver spoon. I too ain't lucky enough to be born like that, but because of this shit of a reason, I'll do my best to let my children be born with a silver spoon. Even if there is a risk of failure, I'll at least not regret having tried.
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