What are the 3 qualities you desire in a life partner, before saying I do?.
Three qualities you should look out for in a life partner to those who are single and are still in search of love and as per my experience in relationships/marriage.
One is Emotional Maturity, this just simply means that a person who is able to handle conflicts , without those shouting matches that have now become rampant, no silent treatment etc, I mean someone who is ready to take responsibility of their own actions regardless because this life is already a mess somehow
Two , is Shared Values, I mean you seek out someone who has same values as you be it faith, career wise, religion , cause this things tend to have effect in the long run , even though love is sweet at first ,you still got to put this into consideration for your life partner , when you both align well , you both would be able to move in the same direction well.
Three for me is Genuine Friendship, This I learnt the hard way , friendship is not pity and pity us not friendship , if you know you know!
Yes before the whole Romance blah blah blah, you actually need someone who is happy ,I mean always happy to have you around, someone you can talk to , tell anything no matter how bad it is, without them judging you
When you have a partner that's your best friend it makes the life time journey more enjoyable, imagine you and your life partner who Is also your friend doing stuff you both enjoy together without grumbling .
This is my responses.
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RE: Sam's Hangout #73- “CHOOSING A PARTNER”