Hello everyone, happy Sunday to everyone here . I pray may the blessings of God always be with us.
Today being Sunday I am very angry, because of the unfairness being melted out to me yesterday at choir rehearsal, so here's what happened .
I made the uniform roaster for the choir in December, I summited it for review to the head of choir, then it was shared to our WhatsApp group,so everyone could see, but from January till two weeks ago we have not being really following this roaster, so two weeks ago , I made my point known that's what's the essence of the roaster being made if we are not going to follow it, then our previous choir coordinator said it's true that we have to stick to the roaster, since we all have the uniform and there's no need for it to be changed, then last week Saturday we were to were ankara and black in which everyone has,but the former choir coordinator said she didn't have any ankara skirt to wear, so we agreed for those who didn't have the skirt should wear ankara top, so that went. Only for this Saturday to come and we were to wear pink and black, this pink and black is not a new uniform but because of nonchalant attitude towards uniform , everyone didn't get it, so we sad to change the uniform, but the woman flared up and started shouting at me, that what right do I have to be dictating uniform for the choir, and that we all should wear what's in the roaster since we imposed on the uniform on her last week, and I was like I didn't impose anything, it was even your husband that gave the law, but this woman went on fot hour shouting and insulting me, at a point I was force to talk back at her ,even though she's older than me.
At the end of the day she didn't agree to wear the uniform later picked but was still shouting, even the pastor of choir was speechless, she didn respect his presence, only for the husband to come in and said this
" I dont know what happened initially, but why didn't anybody tell treasure to keep quiet when she was shouting at my wife"
At was boiling at this point but I didn't say anything , the pastor of choir then told the husband what has been happening and then he couldn't say anything after the pastor faulted his wife, but a statement the woman said, she said she's not my mate!! I was like what concerns mate and what we are talking about, you that didn't respect the pastor in our mist and was shouting when he was there as if I was the only one in the choir.
Well I went home and pondered in this , I couldn't sleep because if the shouting ringing in my ear, I then decided not to join the singing today cause it wouldn't be fair to God singing with a grudge in mind, I did the needful, I sent my email excuse to choir coordinator, only for us to get to church, and the woman's husband asking me to apologise to his wife cause she's older than me.i said I couldn't because I even greeted her when she came into the church but she didn't respond , so why should I apologise to her, and not her apologising to me for accusing me wrongly and disrespecting the pastor, shouldn't she apologized to the the pastor, instead she said the pastor was my backup, for me I see it has a chest, cause I didn't in any way wrong her personally ,we are a group but she made the matter personal .
If you were in my shoes what would you do?
Let me know please.
Treasuree 😔😔
