A hospital visit and the end of 17 years! (still alive)

After 17 years of trying to schedule doctors appointments and having to cancel every time and the refusal to seek treatment a any hospital for serious health issues cause they can't find the issue with the normal X-ray, CT scans and mri's. Well it all started Thursday night when he lost ability to walk so I had to help him. Them it moved up and he started shaking uncontrollably before he was finally able to sleep. By Friday he was in the ER having uncontrollable mini seizures . I want to say it was about an hour after I got there he had a full blown grandma seizure so that it when the finally admitted him for further testing. I stayed with him as long as I could then had to leave. The next morning as I prepared to go see him the hospital called with an update and I told them that I was heading to see him. On my was to see him I had and accident of my own. No I'm not hurt to bad, but yes I am sore from the bike ride/accident plus the walking I had to do going up hill.
Now if you where in the hospital and your other half told you the had an accident would you.

A. Started complaining and leave the hospital before test results and doctors instructions on next move.
OR
B. Ask better half if they are ok!

I don't know if you can really see much, but yes that's a rather large knot on my leg surrounded by a bruise. Well here is what happened on Saturday morning.
I finally got to the hospital limping just a little due to the accident with clean clothes for him and the docs reported that he had ripped off his leads and was demanding to be set home. So I get to the room and the first thing he say is where are my clothes.... That was it for me we argued about him staying and I told him if he left before the docs released him then he need not come home!!
He made his choice and decided 17 years was long enough and walked out so now I'm back to being single after 17 years. The roller coaster ride is now over and it's time to concentrate on ME and my health!