How to be a perfect husband
the perfect couple
The ideal husband is defined as a husband who follows a balanced behavior in which he meets all the needs of his family in general and the needs of his wife in particular. This contributes to a stable and happy family. This is reflected positively on raising children and building their personalities. They do not know the right ways to be ideal, which affects their marital life, and creates problems between the couple, which negatively affect the raising of children, and in this article we will show you how to be a perfect husband.
How to be a perfect husband
Practical methods
Choosing a suitable wife for his personality, so that this choice is balanced between social conditions and feelings.
Respect for the dignity of the wife, and not to allow anyone to insult, or to minimize, or infringe on their rights.
To adhere to the teachings of the Islamic religion, and to maintain purity and cleanliness, so as an example to the wife and children.
Stay away from stress, nervousness, and calmness in actions and speech.
Understanding the potential of the wife, and seeking excuses for her when shortness in some aspects, and try to understand what it has to do.
Try to provide all the life requirements of the wife, take care of them.
Stay away from silence when you sit with your wife, talk to her about the future, and about their children, and how to manage their lives, and tell her all the matters of his life, especially the disturbing, and talk to her frankly.
To make sacrifices, to ensure the integrity of life, to bring about harmony between them, and to the success of their marriage.
Providing the physical home needs, and fulfilling all that the wife needs.
Cooperation with the wife in all matters, especially in the education of children, and education, and in the work of the house, all the wife needs help.
Choosing the appropriate times for dialogue with the wife, for the discussion, for the imamate, for the blame, for the punishment, and for all matters of life.
Make every effort to maintain a successful and interrelated family.
Moral and sensory methods
Stay away from mistrust, and understand the wife, and her position in all the troublesome situations, which bother the husband.
Stay away from the sharp criticism, the mockery of the wife, the slow anger, and the speed of satisfaction.
Sit in the house at leisure, stay away from home and late at night.
Accept the opinion of the wife, and respect him, whether positive or negative, and discuss it with all openness.
Try not to forget about special occasions, such as a wedding anniversary, a wife's birthday, a surprise attempt, her happiness, and gifts for her.
Inform the wife of trust, talk to her about secrets, and rely on them in all things, especially those that require trust.
To maintain feelings of affection and love with his wife, and stay away from everything that makes life routine, because it kills emotions and feelings between them, causing a cold and a distance in the relationship.
Surprise the wife from time to time, and handle it with a graceful, gentle and soft.
Respecting the wife's family, accepting them, and not describing them with qualities that disturb the wife, and do not love her.
Satisfying the emotional desires of the wife, knowing that this is not limited to intimacy, but extends to praise, and the guidance of words of thanks, and not stop bluffing.
By Afnan AbouMofrih
