I remember that many of those who were listening reproached him for those words and told me to ignore them, but the damage had already been done.
I had been alive for more than 50 years and I had known for a long time that I could not have children, but it still affected me.
When I went home my mother noticed my depression and when I told her what happened she told me something that I share in this publication because she told me that I was not a failed man and that she considered me a man who had succeeded in life.
Here I tell you what I remember from one of the greatest life therapies I have received in my life.
My mother asked me and answered herself: Do you know why you are a successful man in spite of not having material wealth?
- You have managed to become a nationally recognized teacher because of the merits you have reaped.
- You gave 30 years of your life to the teaching profession and this work has given you many sons and daughters who love you like a father.
- As director of a university branch, you were able to train and graduate thousands of education professionals.
- You have represented your country and your institution in national and international scientific events and workshops.
- You have managed to study, achieve a university degree and a postgraduate specialty that have made you a competent professional.
However, what made me cry was when she told me that for her I was a successful man because I was an excellent son and a good person.
I don't know if this is being successful for anyone, but, for me it is the greatest lesson of success I have ever received because my mother told me so and, that is enough for me.
I am currently working as a knowledge management director of a research center and I am happy in what I do and there is nothing more comforting and successful than enjoying what you do.
Note: I have used Google translator.
The photos are my property.