Temporary things - where most attention goes

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Your and other people's skinny bodies and sexy looks - that is why the sex sells. In every music song out there there is little love, but in most part - sex - obvious, in your face but sometimes hidden - not so obvious. This is the power of dirty thinking.

Your money and possessions - everything you own will be inherited by your family and nothing you posses will go on with you.

The top cool thing that will fade away like the hand spinner or the song that is on top of the charts for a week or two or a month. They are called one hit wonders.

One week or two of fun time - on the beach, in the mountain, in some country far, far away, temporary experiences that will most likely not change the way you see and more importantly - the way you act in the world. And if they change the way you act and what you do - good for you. In the end it is your game - your own personal stairway or hamster wheel. The human mind can fly and wonder in distant places - in galaxies far far away. If you don't see or hear the river while you are in the forest - it is your play. It is under your control to focus on different things.

Constant everyday news - that happen somewhere far away that may affect you, but in most cases will not, and you get absorbed not only during the news, but during conversations with neighbors, friends and relatives. Or maybe something some famous person or a politician said. In most cases you feel hurt, you share but in reality nothing happens in terms of law or in terms of actions. One individual leaves the childhood and becomes grown when he takes responsibility and understands that for everything that he wants - there must be some action taken from his side or from a person under his influence.

The cool new opportunity that will make you unimaginably rich and successful. Maybe, but in most cases it will not. The most valuable things are those that retain or increase in value over time. Somebody cool idea may look sexy, but for how long? How many people will think it is sexy after 10 years when people change, when the technology advances and there is no need for product or service X?

Long term thinking here will help. Some of the people keep their eggs in the same basket after 10-20 and even more years. You don't become good in something with one month of practice. Finding something that is fun and pays up in long term is hard but if everything in life was easy it wouldn't be as enjoyable when you actually find it.