Someone that complain alot can hardly rise above his / her grievances, because that is still what he / she sees. Complainers are more focused on the negatives than on the positive ones and this is the main reason why they still look frustrated and sad.
Every human being on the face of the planet is going through difficult times, but a complainer would exaggerate his challenge so much as if he is the only one in the world who is going through those challenging times. Their frustration will hinder them from finding the answer to the problem, and use the opportunity to change themselves.
Just look at the lives of those considered to be really strong complainers around you, they rarely rise above the outrage, and most of them still look disappointed and irritated. Complaining doesn't do anybody good. It robs one's peace of mind, enjoyment and prevents the advancement of one's life.
You can hardly see and appreciate the good stuff in your life, if you have the negative attitude. Complaining would not add much to you, however the beauty and happiness of your life will be stealed away. If you want to live a happier life, you need to learn to set that mentality aside, so you can begin to see and appreciate the positive things in your life.
