This prompt reminds me of what happened to Tomiwa, a very close friend of mine, years back when we were still in primary school. That day, she unraveled a family secret that had been intricately hidden from her for countless years.
It all happened one day, after we had left the playground because the hot sun was beginning to glare on us angrily,
we rushed to her family's attic aimlessly, but devotedly searching through her family's attic as if we had lost an important document...while discovering old toys, story books, and photos, Tomiwa cited a new photo album properly placed on a stool at a corner... this grabbed our attention because, unlike other things there, this photo album seemed to have been constantly cleaned by someone because it obviously wasn't as dusty as the others, not just that, it was kept on a stool, which was also separated from the other things there. Upon carefully observing its content, we came across a fascinating photograph of an unknown lady she had never seen or heard of before. This lady stood together with my close friend's parents, carrying Tomiwa on her right hand, radiating a strong feeling of happiness and freedom; while also giving off an uncertain vibe - something that caused Tomiwa to feel uncertain about the overall context of the image itself.
Upon Tomiwa's insistence, she gathered the courage to go confront her parents about the old photo with the lady. After moments of awkward hesitation, they finally revealed that the lady in question was none other than Tomiwa's older sister who had regrettably passed away when she was just a year old. Surprisingly, her parents had kept this tragic occurrence veiled from her for all these years so as not to weigh her down with their own insurmountable pain and grief.
Initially, Tomiwa experienced feelings of anger and emotional distress upon discovering her family's history had been hidden from her. Hiding this important fact made her really confused as to why any secrecy was necessary in the first place. Not knowing important information about her family caused her to feel deprived, making it even more difficult for her to deal with the recent news.
As the sun moved slowly across the sky, Tomiwa slowly began to see reasons why this information was kept a secret...also considering the fact that the album was neat and clean, showed that her parents were still very much in hurt hence the reason why they had ensured to defend her from harm, while trying to get over their pain. It was their belief that shielding her from such suffering would be good for their exceptional child's mental and emotional well-being.
Well, The revelation of the hidden truth brought about Tomiwa's understanding of not only her family but also herself. She learned that everyone holds secret pain, which could be kept hidden, to protect the people they care about. Afterwards, Tomiwa began to see her parents in a new way and realized that they were trying to do what was best for her.
Though it took a while for Tomiwa to get over it all, she eventually did get over it.
Tomiwa made me know, that moment was very important in her life, because It actually imparted onto her an appreciation for sincerity and empathy, while still allowing her to recognize the delicacy and elegance of life. The occurrence made her aware that secrecy can sometimes arise not from ill intent but rather from affection. She became aware of the significance of transparency and receptivity, yet acknowledged the need for understanding in equal measure.
The encounter served to strengthen the bond between Tomiwa and her loved ones as they were able to candidly discuss their emotions, developing a deeper understanding of one another. The occasion made it evident to them that they were primarily united and could depend on each other during trying times.
