What do you need?... No need.
Stop, I said need.
Okay let me help you.
This is what I need:
NEEDS:
Oxygen
Food
Now... here this, should be easy. What do you want?
I want:
A wife, kids, to enjoy life.
Wait, here is the big one.
What do I need?
What does your friend need?
What does your brother, or sister need?
Do they need what you want?
Do they need what you want for them?
Do they even want what you want?
Do they even like what you want for them?