Reflection
What we understand by violence is any aggression, which provokes, or can cause, physical or psychological damage to other beings, and is associated with verbal aggression, since it can also be psychological or emotional, through threats or offenses. And either in the public or private sector.
At present, there are many families where this problem of mistreatment towards women usually occurs in newly formed couples where the husband is authoritarian and the woman submits to their mistreatment. This is divided into three primordial successive stages.
The first is when the tension increases the victim tries to please the aggressor so that the violence ends. If this does not result the tension increases and it goes to a greater degree.
The second is when there is violence in any way and it is always painful
The third finalized the shekel the aggressor asks for forgiveness for the aggressions. The victim forgives it believing that it will not happen again.
There are five reasons why the couple does not stop living with the aggressor may be due to fear of personal safety or other members of the family, economic capital, housing or the belief that the aggressor change their attitude.
CAUSES OF VIOLENCE
• The alcoholism:
• Lack of awareness in the inhabitants:
• Strong ignorance.
• Failing to control the impulses :.
• Lack of understanding between couples.
• Lack of understanding towards children :.
• Drug addiction :.
CONSEQUENCES OF VIOLENCE
a) Consequences for health
It can cause visible physical damage such as bruises, injuries, etc. Also diseases such as AIDS due to violations by the couple
b) Homicide
Numerous studies conducted by the women's institute report that the majority of women who die of homicide are murdered by their current or former partner.
Violence that begins with threats can end in forced "suicide", death by injury or homicide.
c) Injuries during pregnancy
Violence during pregnancy has been identified as a risk to the health of both the mother and the unborn fetus
d) Injuries to children
Children in violent families can also be victims of abuse. Children often get hurt while trying to defend their mothers.
e) Unwanted pregnancy at an early age
Violence against women can produce an unwanted pregnancy, either by rape or by affecting a woman's ability to negotiate the use of contraceptive methods.
f) Vulnerability to diseases
Battered women are more vulnerable to diseases due to the body's low defense.
Violence against women is related to several topics studied during the year which will be expressed and explained below.
The family marriage and procreation. The family is the primary cell of society where values are learned and the norms of a just society are taught, it is considered as the first school of the person.
The contributions of the family to society as they make up a fair society the family provides values both individually and as a group. The latter is more important because it belongs to each person.
In the old and new testament the marriage had to be formed by a united couple of monogamous character (one with one), indissoluble this establishes that it can not be separated.
Responsible parenthood also comes into play in these cases because it is the first institution where it is taught to value and create a healthy life where parents have the obligation to care for and educate their children and provide them a healthy life both physically and psychologically. where the couple has to have stable the amount of children they can or will have.
The objectivity of good and evil
The man has the ability to distinguish the good from the bad is to say it is considered as a characteristic taught by parents and the society in which they live. What is considered as if an act is good or bad can be taken from different points of view subjective, objective, intentional or according to the circumstances.
Subjective: focuses on whether good and evil are something real and objective depending on the judgment that the subject makes about their own actions.
Objective: good and evil are taken into account from a rule or law taken as a basis that establishes the freedom of each.
Intentional: refers to the intention of the subject who tube before performing the intention
Circumstance: good and evil sometimes depend on the personal circumstances of the subject and even the time. For example if the woman is unfaithful the man can react in a violent way.
The evangelium vitae
It is a letter written by Pope John Paul II in 1995. The document has a profound message in favor of life with respect to the context in which one lives with respect to the culture of death in this case.
In Case of growing suicide worldwide. The violence of every kind that every day cost hundreds of deaths. The issues discussed above are related to the problem posed by the mistreatment of women because from birth we are taught that life is the most important thing is the family and we are taught to value it. The mistreatment of women is a social problem that must be eradicated based on the teachings of the family but as it was previously raised the family is also the one that originates the problem because it is not firmly posed what is right of what is not a boy who witnessed these violent acts would have a high probability of being an aggressive person. In recent years, marriage itself is no longer as important as it used to be, and an irresponsible society is increasingly being created due to lack of education and the social ignorance that exists. Abuse of women occurs in any social environment where abuse is experienced at school through insults, beatings and even violations occur in our own classrooms. In conclusion this social phenomenon violates many social and spiritual rules (those established by God). Families are affected and therefore society too.
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