Hello Assalamualaikum 
A few days ago I saw a small post on social media where it was written that technology has killed romance. At first I smiled and ignored it, but later I kept thinking about it. The more I thought, the more I felt that maybe there is some truth in it.
If we look back a little, love used to be very different. People did not have smartphones, WhatsApp, or video calls. Communication was slow. Sometimes people used to wait for days or even weeks just to receive a single letter from someone they loved. That waiting itself was a beautiful part of the relationship. Every small message meant a lot.
I remember listening to stories from older people. They used to say that if they wanted to see someone they liked, they had to wait for the right moment. Maybe outside a street, maybe during a family event, or sometimes just a small glimpse from far away. Even a short meeting felt special.
But now things have changed a lot. Today if someone misses a person, they can just send a message or make a call. Within seconds they can see each other through a video call. Technology has removed distance completely.
At first this sounds like a good thing, and in many ways it really is. Technology helps people stay connected. Friends and families who live far away can still talk daily. Couples in long-distance relationships can see each other whenever they want.
However, sometimes I feel that something small but important has been lost in this process.
The feeling of waiting.
That excitement of not knowing when the next message will arrive. That nervousness before meeting someone. Those moments when a person used to replay a small memory again and again in their mind.
Now everything is instant. Messages are quick, replies are quick, and sometimes emotions also feel quick. When everything becomes so easy and fast, maybe the depth of some feelings slowly becomes lighter.
But I also believe romance is not completely dead. It has only changed its shape.
Real romance does not depend on letters or mobile phones. It depends on sincerity, respect, and genuine feelings between two people. Even in this modern world, if two people truly care for each other, they can still create beautiful moments together.
Maybe technology did not kill romance.
Maybe we just forgot how to slow down and feel it.
Sometimes the problem is not the phone in our hands, but the hurry in our hearts.
If we learn to value time, conversations, and small emotions again, romance will never disappear — no matter how advanced technology becomes.
