The thing that my girlfriend and I mostly argue about is patience. I have a ton, and she has almost none. Lol! But the thing that I realized is that I am impatient myself; impatient in a way that when we get into arguments, I can’t take it when it takes her time to get her stubborn head out of her ass. Whereas with me, I don’t like prolonging distance between us after arguments. I always want us to resolve things right away, because I believe that time is essential, like every second of it. And that any time that is put on anger or hatred or petty fights is a wasted time.
Sure, getting into fights is normal, but I like living for moments of joy and everything that is pleasant in a relationship. I don’t like getting provoked to do something or to say something that I know I am going to regret in the latter, because I am a lover. I am the type of person who can get easily irritated and may come off as a bitch, but really I am nothing but a softie, especially when it comes to the person I love the most.
So I am simply writing this because I want my girlfriend to know that even if she gets on my last nerve at times, I still love every fiber of her being.
So yeah, you! If you’re reading this right now… Get your stubborn head out of your ass already and hug me!
