You dang near ready to drop this fool and sue him for wasting your time but he hits you up. "Sorry love, I've been so busy lately". He finesses you with words. They sound reasonable but you don't buy it, but you go along with it because of the feelings you have for him. He probably said; -he's busy. -works stuff. -family issues. -needed to think. -I really like you and I don't wonna ruin it too fast. You explain that he can't be inconsistent and he says he understands that too. You know what you want and you thought he did too, now it's different. You're now annoyed because you have let him in emotionally and sexually and now he's unsure. But why would he even waste your time? Like, He went from a stranger to a genuine interest, to an amazing guy, to he's serious about me, to "Wait now he don't know?" And it usually ends in two ways..He dates you out of internal problem he never told you about Or y'all have to fall off, the first one sucks. You date but he never fully emotionally commits. Y'all make memories, moments, he meets fam, friends, you're like all the way in love. He thinks he is in love but deep down he's always had doubts. The day comes where he makes some big excuse to break up. You're heart broken not because you breakup but because he hurt you. In the back of your head you're like why and what if? It's sad that you wasted time.
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