Ghosting; Distance from a Friend
They say no man is an island and you need the company of other people to scale through life and just get over the most difficult phase in life. But often times we must go through this journey of life alone as , reality starts to set in and everyone has a real problem of there own and the wolf in a pack starts to go there separate ways for a hunt , because the hunters have forced them to part ways. So does the reality of life force us to leave the comfort of our homes and start to go fend for ourselves.
You need to raise fund for college and also read your books to make good grades, you need to raise funds to pay rent , feed yourself and sometimes support younger siblings and family members. As often as we try our best to face all these hurdles spending time in the arm of someone for the purpose of solace and comfort is very rare. In the process you fall prey of wrong individuals who don’t treat you well and take advantage of your friendship. Or you find someone who is genuine and ends up with them telling you how busy they’ve been trying to put there life together.
But it turns out in life we have recently found out that no one is too busy for you, they like and care about you, you’d definitely hear from them and get to know what’s up with them. But then don’t always conclude that they are busy or that they’ve forgotten you and then you start to reach out to them call them as often as you can text them as much as you think is efficient to make a lonely person have your time and give you the attention that makes you feel some comfort that brings reunion to an old friendship. But looks like this person has moved on and is now leaving like a ghost, trying to distant himself from you and keep making every effort to reach out to them a mission , that seems impossible.
If a person likes you they truly would make out time to be with you , and if they read your text message and don’t reply like they used to no matter how often you try to reach out to them all you have to do is let it go, it can be painful and saddening but you’d be saving yourself from leaving in the shadow of wanting comfort and love from a person who seem nonchalant to reciprocate the love.
Stop actin like you lack love from home, and even if you had no love from home don’t grovel for one undeserving of your precious time and affection. You’ll definitely find true love and genuine friendship which ever one you desire.
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