I've been that situation where I want to he the vest version of my introverted self and , hold on to my peace of mind like a life jacket. It's really amazing how you just want to maintain your peace and tranquility but , situations of life just bring noisy people your way. And you have no choice but to welcome them because it's just going to be temporary. But suddenly they start getting used to you want you to hand with them more than you planned to . But deep down you can't wait for this relationship to be over because it's all just for show off, just just just around to see that you have more to offer and just won't go until they milk everything out of you. It's just so sad that they come like they are friends and they give you the hope of staying but turned out to be a disappointment. Overtime I've always wondered how girls tend to be best friends with each other but still backlash each other behind their backs. Pisses me off is I will refer to that as fake. I prefer you come to me as a business associate who wants something and we'll go rather than just being as cunning as a snake and give me the hope of friendship. Why most people are like that they tend to hurt you without even knowing that that's what they are doing, but then you wouldn't want to hurt their feelings by making them feel bad and so you just play along. I noticed that while playing along I notice that I become uncomfortable because, I'm putting putting myself in a tough position.
These people sometimes know exactly what they're doing because they sometimes tend to act overly smart and wise when they see you around, it's more like friends for benefits, you're in this friendship because of all the goodies you could get from me. and yet you hold back all the goodies that I could get from you that's so much of being a fake friend. And most time some of the knowledge we tend to hold back from our friends we end up dieing with it it's really useful and helpful if we could just share the informations to help our friends instead of just going to them only when we need their help I personally do not like such people and I tend not to take my hopes high, and regard them as people that will still come and go instead of taking them as serious friends.
Well that will be all for now please kindly leave a comment telling me if you've encountered a fake friend before and what you did during those toxic.
