Hi friends, I am sharing my feelings about the topic of this month"optimism"
Why we lose hope
The stress, failure, loneliness, when we try again and again, but we can't achieve our goal, when people use to cheat us, when we can't discuss our problems and failures with others when we consider ourselves in the worst condition when we remain behind everyone when we see around and can't find a ray of hope when there is none to calm us or our heart is unable to be calm by any words, we become disappointed.
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Some people are pessimistic and don't take decisions because they always remain afraid to be fail but other people aren't born pessimists but they become miserables due to some bad circumstances in their lives,some get hope with the passage of time but others remain pessimist no matter if the time passes.Some people can't achieve their goals and become pessimist permanently.
They don't refresh their mind and remain in the same situation forever. They also spread negativity.The habit of losing hope becomes their nature and they forget about success or to achieve a goal,such type of people remain behind every goal and don't try to achieve their wish.
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The example of pessimism is like if we would be caught by a rope,we try to be free but after sometime we lose hope and leave struggle(even if we would be untied)
Hope
Hope is a good source to be calm and stay moving. Hope is life. When someone leaves hope he becomes dead. Hope gives strength to our body and soul. Our heart is strong if we are optimistic.
Every person faces hardships and sees tough times in life but the main thing is to stay strong so that we would be able to get up again. There are a lot of people who lose everything but they don't lose heart, therefore they remain active and consistent with their work.
Some people are optimistic in life, they remain searching and this is the accomplishment, life is nothing without hope.
Sometimes we become hopeless and stay still, there are some situations which make us unhappy and pessimists, people don't motivate us and there is no courage to get up and start moving again. At that time we need to motivate ourselves and start with a new zeal.
We should learn from failure
Failure is not a bad thing if it leads to trying again, but if it will make us hopeless, then we don't try again because we consider ourselves losers. Sometimes we do our best and we become successful but due to some difficulties we can't reach our goal and remain a step behind our goal, this is the worst condition which helps negative feelings to arise.
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I also faced some conditions which made me hopeless for some time and took a long pause to think and decide what to do next. This condition was with my studies because I wanted to join forces but my parents wanted to make me a teacher. This behaviour usually made me unhappy and lazy but I didn't stop my journey and compromise with their wishes.
But now I realized that this job is according to my personality and it is satisfactory. But for a few years, I had become obsessed with my wish, there was a flood of negative feelings which were disturbing and made me stressed.
Family is a big support for every person, if our family become tense, we also become worried. Same thing happened to me,
When I had no job, I was hopeless and there were other conditions which increased my tension as I was busy with my home chores, and there was the pressure of exams and some other family issues. I was disturbed and was feeling loneliness everywhere. I didn't want to discuss my mental stress with anyone and wanted to be alone, that was the time when I was hopeless and was trying nothing but I have an excellent pacemaker which initiates hope with the change in pulse rate( I become courageous by myself馃槉)also my mother is a brave lady who gives extra energy by her sweet words.
If we want to be optimistic we should have a strong heart or a sweet family which becomes a pillar to support us. We should not be pessimists for a long time, because the heart is nothing if it is without hope. Pessimism makes us unhappy and stressed and leads to mental sickness. Some people attempt suicide due to pessimism when losing hope of living.
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