This article is the second writing recorded in the posted column steemit. I wrote Since the first writing to the second writing, within 3 days of joining Steemit, various writing themes flowed just like that.
There are no special writings that I produce - all are born spontaneously and more often
impromptu. As a result, after I looked at what I wrote, all of them muttered aka repeating one theme for the next writing theme. How shallow is my knowledge.
So, just ignore all suggestions about anything, as well as advice on how we should write, which I have conveyed. I laughed to myself when I read or heard again. Javanese said, I am a person
crumpled or knowing, even though the original didn't know. To be more sadistic: the original I knew nothing.
I don't know anything, I'm also a forgetful person. Really forgot what I wrote ten minutes ago after airing on Steemit. This forgetfulness aside from troubling other people, it must also be annoying. A strong protest from a friend of mine responded plainly: "Do you know? Sorry. "And it turned out I had forgotten one of the contents of the writing that he protested.
Not a few who judge me as incompetent, arrogant, jaim or what other terms reveal that I am not deft in replying to comments. Slow greeting friend.
Slow responding to readers' greetings. My response: all of that is not wrong alias is true. I am not an online user who handles devices for 24 hours. When i'm done
submit one article, the fastest I will look again after three to five hours. Sometimes I just reply to a comment after three days or even more.
What I want to convey through this article is that I am not a good user of social media. Not fast response as demanded by people's behavior using social media. Unfortunately, the slow response I brought when writing in Plukme appeared as a social media platform.
Indeed, it turned out that my behavior when social media disappointed many friends. Although I will not switch off from the online world, but the control when online and offline is in my hands completely. This control causes my behavior on social media to be out of line with the mainstream of other perpetrators who are almost continuous
on line .
The uproar and situation filled with anxiety on social media need to be balanced with an atmosphere of calm and peace in the offline world. Face to face in person, staring at smiling expressions, breathing in the air around the meeting place, meeting physically in a certain location will maintain a lasting attachment.
The communication flow will not be as fast as when the conversation takes place online. Slower indeed — however, the slow flow of communication will lead us to reflective and deep conversations. Not just a glance but focus on circle themes that are understood from various sides. Offline communication opens up all that.
Meeting physically and chatting directly with three friends is qualitatively more useful than engaging in conversations on social media groups that are attended by hundreds of members. Social interactions on social media sometimes display asocial scenes. Everyone maintains their respective themes and encourages all members to focus on the theme.
It is often found that conversations on social media jump here and there, shift very quickly, sporadically according to the mood of its members. Not infrequently also everyone maintains his opinion on trivial matters while forcing others to agree with him.
How tiring it is to establish "social relations" on social media. Sometimes fatigue is triggered by an imbalance between living something and becoming something. In the real world we are encouraged to do something. Whereas in the virtual world we are disliked to become something. What's not balanced is when we spend most of our time on social media to become something.
Of course there is a distance between being something and living something. People nowadays or social media acitivis sometimes become busy. Hopefully on another occasion I can write this in more detail.
That is why I reject the title of maestro, because that label becomes something, not primarily through something. Even though what I live every day is not just writing: I take a bath, have breakfast, take my child to school, drain my bathroom, wash dishes, fill up training, sleep, take a train, read a book.
In one day I become anything according to roles, tasks and functions according to the context of space and time. Then what is the right name when we can become something or become anything in a day?
Do you choose to be something or do something? []
