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I don't think that you want that for your wife. Anything that is under control gets boring eventually plus I don't think it's a good idea to "control" your wife. It's like a form of slavery because once she's under your control she has no decision of her own. And if you truly love her you wouldn't want this for her.
Instead of having control over your wife, I suggest you and her go for counselling.
It's obvious that you wanting control over her means that she puts up resists to everything you say or do.
She might not come with you but I'm sure that when you go to the counsellor, he/she will give you remedies to your solution rather than the idea of controlling your wife.
