In life, we are always looking to fit into a certain social gear. There is nothing wrong, on the contrary, it would be positive if it were not because in many cases, people end up annulling who we are in order to please the rest and not feel that we are against the current.
How many times has it happened that we have even repressed our way of thinking, some idea, some proposal or suggestion, thinking that by saying it we would not be taken seriously or valued by the rest.
The problem arises because in the long run, this ends up wearing us out, since we do not show our essence, ceasing to be free. We hold back, we retreat and in this way, we lose part of our identity.
If your current circle influences that you do not act naturally, that you live on appearances, that you feel less, that you do not say what you think, that you feel permanent "acting", it means that you do not have positive relationships.
Do not let this happen to you, ask yourself now, am I acting according to who I am or what do you want it to be? Sometimes to move forward, it is necessary to identify that bottleneck that limits us, but once we realize this, we can be, without discussion, full people.
Sometimes it is necessary to sacrifice that space of comfort, taking risks and really listening in our interior, about what we are looking to achieve, it does not mean that you abandon something, only that the people who love you or value you, must respect you for who you are and accept those nuances that make the human being so wonderful.