She really thought she could handle this one, as there were no needless. But I think the bit of blood set her off. It is harder for a mother too I think - there is a different connection. Just after birth, my daughter was in intensive care with a bunch of other babies, but my wife knew when Smallsteps was crying from another room, because while they all sounded the same to me, my wife's boobs hurt when it was Smallsteps :)