Murder is not only of bodies, it is also of emotions `
There are many sacrifices within the four walls of the house that no one can see. Carrying out household responsibilities from morning to evening, washing clothes, cleaning dishes, tidying up the house and then standing in the kitchen despite being tired and preparing food with love for your loved ones, all these are not just work, they are ways of expressing love.
Especially when a daughter-in-law or any member of the family makes something with full dedication, sincerity and passion and has a desire in his heart that today his hard work will be appreciated, his passion will be valued, then he waits for a few words of praise.
But when the only criticism he gets in response;
" There is less salt."
"This is not good."
" This thing should not have been added."
"Last time was better."*
So perhaps the speaker does not know that he is not just commenting on the food, but is wounding someone's passion, hard work and sincerity .
Make corrections, but do not close the doors of praise. Because where motivation ends, passion dies, love weakens and hearts learn to be silent .
Remember, sometimes two words of praise can do what no great blessing in the world can do, and sometimes unjustified criticism buries all the beautiful feelings inside someone .
Before finding a deficiency in someone's hard work, be sure to see their sincerity; because killing emotions also hurts, only its wounds are not visible.
