Accidental Friendship

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I know that definition of friendship is difficult and different for you so it's same for me. It will be an absurd joke If I will say that friend making is as easy as binding two pages with glue. So, it's obviously a difficult thing yet beautiful thing.

Friendship holds special status in our heart. There are some friends who own our complete heart and they know each little nuance of our life. I think all of you know very well about friendship and about friends because all of you have friends.

Do I make new friends?

To make friends it's really important to have understanding of the person. Merely understanding is not necessary. Understanding is just first step.

Vibe plays a viral role in friendship process. I assume vibe word is popular in friendship discourse XD. I also believe on vibe that vibe should resonates in both friends. Vibe-matching isn't actually matching of all interest, hobbies and desires.

you cannot walk by holding right hand of person in your right hand.

It's true. Friend should be contrasting in things. Then everyday life will seem like an adventure and daring journey.
Suspense is also important. Hmmm, you are laughing that there are so many things which are important. Well, suspense is integral part of many things like movies, dramas and other things and also in relationships it's a catalyst. Humans have curious nature and all of us want something new. Until or unless relationship has some suspense then it will work. So now you got to know that you can take relationship advice from me.

Let me talk about myself. Oh, you have understood that before making friends I think about these terms and analyze the personality on the basis of vibe and suspense formula. I know everyone has some kind of formula.

The most recent person who is my friend is non other than ahmedhayat@ahmedhayat and I know he is appealing in every friend type blog(hahaha). It was accidental friendship and may be both of us are in denial mode, but we are friends. Long story short, friendship is accidental and at the time of friendship we all forget our so called formulas to make friends. Ahmed and I are discussion friends like we discuss things a lot. All the time we discuss things mainly about hive and also we do have fun. Well, I tried to search photo of Ahmed and I in the gallery but I failed in it.

There is one friend in university who is my senior but I don't treat him like a senior as we are friends. He is Uzair. He is also new but now he is old and worn out (XD).


Are you able to find Uzair. Let me give you a hint; Uzair is standing on my right side. So, no need to find him now. Again friendship with this stranger was also accidental and I don't know how we became friends although we don't call each other friends. May be we are reel-sharing friends. In picture, there are many people but those are not my friends and these are fellows with little or more acquaintance.

Now let's talk about some old friends;
Moaz and Haider are my friends.Haider is my school time friend and Moaz is my college time friend. When I was in school I just had acquaintance with Haider and he used to think that I am an arrogant person. On the other hand, I also used to have thousand of perceptions about Haider. But, with time we became friends. It was all sudden and we became good friends.
Moaz was friend of Haider and I just heard his name. Everything happened realistically and unrealistically. At last we all became friends. Moaz and Haider are those friends who have deeper understanding of me.


Moaz and I, we captured this photo today when we both were sitting on train station and doing nothing.

I make new friends but I don't know when time comes to make friends and when not as it's just sudden thing.
I am talking about friendship and I forgot to mention tags and nicknames which are part of friendship. These tags show love in friendship.
Friendship is directly proportional to fights but these fights are not like wars between two countries and also not less than those wars. Fights are building blocks of friendship.

Friendship is different, strange and beautiful. With friends we laugh hard. Friends have different tags like crime partners, pals and many others.

screenshot from my mobile.

I also have pals in my life. Hmmm, life is going good with all these creatures.

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