In life and nature everything is about balance, even in relationship, must people believe in love, for me love is just a chemical reaction in your brain, that with luck it might last a couple of months, but after that, what happen?, everything just fade away? I think the success or the continuity of the relationship rely on what I call "the rules of points"
it might sound crazy but as your credit scores, you as a person has a score, of course that final score might depends in many things, like geography, culture, religion, society and personal believe.
So have you ever wonder, why that relationship did not work out? even if you two love so much, or why people out of nowhere get divorce or couples after years take different path, destiny, luck? or just the points weren't even, is really simple actually, and I will take a wild guess and making this fictional example to try to make you understand.
Example : white guy. in his 30s still living with his parents, overweight, and works at McDonald: so from 1 to 10 you can give whatever number you want value his success in his life or his future , is completely up to you, his partner have to be around that same score, so you can imagine a woman in her 30s, a lawyer with her own house, and single is kinda hard to imagine they falling in love and getting married.... right? because the number didn't match
Is as easy as that, you as a person have a number (1 to 10 or 1 to 100 does not matter the scale), and your partner have to be around your number in order for the relationship work, in the case is not even, like a 2 with a 7 but they are together, something external make the scale even, something like money, this is why when you see an old guy with a 25 years old girl, you might think "that guy must be rich" LOL....
But again, if all this crap is true, it would mean that love is not real, at least after a few months is just convenience and perfect matching, maybe at the end we as people think to high of our self and we want the best of others, instead of try to be our better self......
So what number do you think you are?
...Life Vs System.
