While you are young or a child, honesty and rigidity come off the charts. Just true to self, and that goes on to be respected and loved and looked back on as beautiful memories. Slowly, as we grow up, the deviation tends to happen in looking more for an outer viewpoint towards oneself. And that level of acknowledgement is maturity, or a falsely presented utopian feeling of existence. In any form, most of the societal perspective is drawn to what is called 'nice' and 'bad', which is based on what is presented to them. The reality and presentation can have a great deviation; this gap is where our social programming fails.
Ever wondered why some old people are rude? (or at least from a societal perspective)
Because they know things, have been through, seen things that we haven't. The checks and measures are so many that in some terms either resembles the deviation they perceived, saw, or understood.
However, in the present world, sweetness is a new dopamine that should exist because the world has been turned cruel. Understandable, but how this has been twisted and infiltrated with a presentation of sweetness, which is just a show.
I was watching this series Teach You a Lesson " (just while visiting the guest house), I guess somewhere in the middle while they were watching, and it occurred to me lately that the world perspective can be drawn in three points.
So the series is about the school kids bullying their teacher and manipulating their social media users/viewers, playing a victim.
This is not a movie review but a depiction and reflection of how such people exist around you; you can't name them, talk about them, because you know things can come around you in no time. Just like it, how most of us live in shades. Maybe I would keep that in a movie style for now.
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The world rules already created without chaos is where we all seek shelter. In any case, someone wanting to fuse the illusion is an outcast. Because it breaks the chain, or you are the crazy ones. In the series, the student would trigger the teacher, and in response, any frustration shown by the teacher is recorded and shown to the world. In response, the social media world sees the teacher as the bully.
The reason for that is drawn from a long history of some* teacher control over students, like hitting students with sticks, or sexually bullying, which might have existed in the past. So, as the students are capturing the footage of teachers' confrontation with the certainty that the viewers' fury is based on the general point of view, and it ignites people's trauma or patterns of the past. This deviation of existence and illusion is one reason to socialprogrammingerror.
The sexual assault blame on teachers ends with the suicide case. As a respected teacher, he couldn't take it, and he ended up taking his life. Because we are quick to judge based on generalizations of worldview. People whose integrity is higher and has been true to themselves often are the victims of the scrutiny of so-called happy people.
On the other side, because we want to be happy people, and we tend to fall for the happy people's story and feel close to them because 'we want to follow people whom everyone follows, love, and look up to' not let the dopamine fed by them go away. It's not what exists, it's what you feel about whom and vice versa.
Some of the students were against internally, but they couldn't oppose their mates. Because of 1 & 3.
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In the same case, most of the teachers start getting scared and become slaves of the bully students. Because it mattered to them how the world sees them, why? because those teachers had high integrity, stepped into life seeking a good world. What the teachers received was an illness as a reflection of their integrity.
What you see in the world is only real to what is shown; what exists around can be far from reality. Where people are turning into actors and mimicking the facades of illusions, it's hard to decide right and wrong. What always comes on top is Self-respect and love.
Always keep your head high.
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