We are all we have all been in the struggle and every man has had that next they finish too fast can't stay hard long enough or even both and it's very common than men will ever admit.
We have that period where so many things keep hindering us we could not finish our work we don't know what to do our heads filled up with so many challenges and we don't really know how to go about it so that is how life has always been when you know a lot of things but you cannot put them to what is to keep working because through the setback and failures you get back at winning.
That it's not really without failure so you need to feel fast so that you understand what works and what do not work and also for the best with the experience you always gain for yourself.