We share a similar story. I used to just drop my post and go my way. I wasn't concerned about commenting and relating with others. And apart from it affecting the posts output, I wasn't conversant with everything that happened. Many things were happening that were arrange to me.

In the days I decided to just try out a different approach, the results were different. I've gotten to know a handful of people. It's doesn't feel like am the odd one out. Whoever wants to get the best out of this space had to do more than the average.