What a lovely topic we have here. The sharing of good news with those that we see as part of our lives journey. And knowing that life is full of obstacles, as some days comes with something good and positives, while others comes with bad news that can suddenly displace us. So we are always edger and happy to share moments of good happenings with those we have around us.
And good news are things like new achievements in a project we are building, an office promotion, being appointed to head a contract, some new goals we have been working on or just a new opportunity that opened up unexpectedly. These are things that brings happy moments in our lives that we always want to share with others.
When something good happens in our lives and we needed to share it , we first have to consider who to choose to share the great news with because it appears that when others rejoice with us over an achievement, we are even happier. And this is exactly how life should work. And to share this good news, I will start with those I trust so much. And this someone must be people whom have always known me, sharing my days of joy and days of sadness in the past. Those who knows my challenges, my journey in life and what every achievement will mean to me. Who see me for what I am and also believe in me.
So the first people I will share any of my good news will be my “immediate family”. So my family comes first in all that I do because they are the one that supports me. Although, a saying has it that “family is not by blood 🩸 “. Meaning that those we have crossed paths with can actually be better than those we share blood 🩸 with. But another saying also has it that “blood is thicker than water”. So which should we believe in?
But as far as the fact remains that a family can not envy you, sabotage you, be jealous of you or plan evil against you, family then still stands as the first people to trust. The family we come from , who are our parents and siblings and the family that we will have to build when we leave our parents and siblings called our “immediate family “. These circle ⭕️ of family will never wish us bad nor will they pray for our down fall. Instead, we are bonded with love ❤️ that keeps us stronger even though we might sometimes disagree to agree.
Chose Me?
The world 🌍 is in such a mess right now that trust has become so expensive. Trust is what we should be careful with because change has caused people to sell their conscience, dignity and love for one another. Envy, jealousy, resentment and the struggle for success are pushing people to do what we never expected of them, including those we call friends 🥰
We should indeed choose those who has chosen us in all that we do because the fact remains that reality is never hidden no matter how hard people tries to hide their personality. I will not want to associate with anyone who does not value me or see me as a genuine friend. Why in the first place will I have such a person?
Honestly speaking, am the kind that doesn’t keep friends. And I don’t want to have anything to do with pretenders , because even when it’s important to have friends, its not mandatory. One close friend is always my vibe. And I must have studied you over a long period of time to be able to see you as a genuine friend.
And this is why many makes mistakes in relationships, even those that leads to marriage. They will want to condone others, thinking things will eventually change with time. But instead, you will live to regret the chances you gave to them. So we should not force relationships because our families are even enough to be our friends if we work and build things together for the future.
Envy, jealousy, greed and resentment is killing the good things of the world 🌍
This is my response to the #hiveleaners featured content for week 223, edition 02
@sunshine29 🧡