   # Hello Community and friends 😍!!

Happy to be joining in again in this new featured content for this week with warmest greetings. Hope to find everyone enjoying good health as September the 9th month for this year 2025 keep ticking slowly to end 😇.

And talking about pain here, how many times do we as humans want to carry out revenge on other people who did not know of the previous hurts we received from others? And I mean, how long do we want to keep dwelling in the pain caused us by those that might have forgotten they caused us pain and have even moved on with their lives?

This very prompt “CIRCLE OF PAIN is indeed one that should make us seriously reflect on the present and also of the past since life is full of uncertainties. Meaning every step we take in life involves one encounter that might bring positive happenings or negative feelings that leaves us with thoughts 💭 of what is the next thing to do.

I believe as humans we are bound to encounter good things in life and also bad things because life has never been a bed 🛌 of roses 🌹. The good things that happens to us should be what we should share with others by extending gratitude 🙏 while every bad encounter which hurts us we should deal with in any way we could and not carrying them with us, or using them to affect others.

Vengeance is an old word we grew up to know because even our forefathers believed that vengeance exists just like karma exists. So its not in our hands to seek vengeance especially when we have been hurt by others without them asking us for apologies. We as humans with conscience are not supposed to carry those hurts around and be hurting others with them. Its simply an emotion that will bring us down for sometimes, but at the same time, its also one huge of a step to learning some lessons that will make us stronger in life.

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It’s very hurting and draining when we are stuck with past pains and hurts from people. In fact, its like a kind of wound that will definitely refuse to close up despite what ever medication 💊 we try to apply to it. The best healings to hurts and pains are when we choose to move on with life, leaving the hurt and pain in the hands of the Creator who avenges. And healing to move on might not be easy, but it’s only in our hands to take the bold steps.

For me everyone who goes on to hurt others as a result of his/her past pain or hurt 😔, should be held accountable . And such an act is unforgivable. I feel that people who will go out of their way to hurt others because they were previously hurt by someone are not normal. Any reasonable human should know that life is full uncertainties.

No one in his/her right thinking 💭 mind will want to cause people pain because they have received lots of pain from others. Its “destiny”. Every man to his “destiny”. I have encountered and gone through so many pains from people and have tried to deal with them one by one. And I saw this journey called life as one thing we must go through with sometimes happiness, joy, and laughter. And sometimes, it might just be cloudy ⛅️, sadness and blue days. “We need to grow up”.

This is my response to the #hiveleaners featured content for week 185, edition 01, tagged (CIRCLE OF PAIN).