Oh sweetie, I feel your distress and your fear of loosing the love of your life. We are all at the same precipice and ages where we have to be well prepared. All I have to offer is stay focused on each day at hand and discuss how each of you can assist the other in ways that will prepare you for being on your own.

My husband and I have been doing this with each other for years now and we feel that we can managed our lives better for it. He can do all the household chores and has even been helping me cook which is a far cry from just boiling water.

The nightmares are just a guide to get you going in the right direction to give you both some peace of mind.
Also, you are always connected for an eternity and “will” be together again. ❤️❤️❤️