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In the end of, only three things matter: how much you loved, how gently you lived, and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you. - Buddha

Here Are Some Ways To Deal With Rejection Gracefully

Don’t Take It Personal

when it comes to love or a job, a perfect alignment is needed and it either “Is” or “Isn’t” ours. If it isn’t ours, it is what it is. That might sound hard to do but getting rejected mean it wasn’t the right one. It doesn’t mean that anything is wrong or less than about us. There will be a perfect fit, just keep going on and trying.

Learn From Your lessons

A lot of the times it hurts so much to be rejected that we turn it in on ourselves, believing that we got rejected because we weren’t good enough which is not so. When we get rejected, a lot can be examined on what we didn’t see. It could be something we didn’t try but could have or something that we’ve missed. It is a miss alignment in what we expected and the reality can reveal to us on unseen areas that maybe need our attention including in what we can learn. Maybe there aren’t any lessons but this is about turning this into anything that can benefit yourselves. Which is not blaming or anything bad but getting something out if it of all its worth. Step yourselves out of the role of victimization and keep your eyes focused on what you want more of in your life.

You’re Too Cool For Them

Focus on building that love and value for yourselves that extend beyond that anyone else says or thinks. Continue doing you because sometimes the popular opinion isn’t necessary good and at the end of the day all you have is yourself. The most valuable asset you have to foster is your relationship with yourself. What someone else think is their issues. When you act at your best, to the best of your abilities yet the rest go. There will be a time in life where you did everything right and wonderful but you were the only person who was on your side. Remember that things outside that will be out of your control. Recognize that limit and accept it with peace.

Do A Check-UP

When it comes to something you really wanted, rejection feels like it the end of the world. This is what getting blindsides by pain does to people, making you believe that everything sucks and your life is terrible which will stay like that forever. Don’t trust anything you think when you are in this state because there will be a day not too far away that you will forget you ever felt this way. Know that it will be this way for a little while but just focus on the future and dealing with these emotions positively. Your life will have super good time and really freaking down times and that is just part of what it means to be alive.

Applaud Yourself

Remember that this time in your life does not last forever, it last as long as you decide it does.
You just built depth and character. The most boring people are people who never experienced anything. When you go through things it’s like you come out with super powers, you learn and grow through practical experiences. As a person you grow deeper and compassionate because tough experiences build the most characters.

Guys, If you are feeling any form of rejections or downs in life, just close your eyes and pictures all the people who are going through similar things that you are. Send them love and compassion <3 Rejection happens to everyone worth knowing. :)

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Much Love, Suzana