The New Year is fast-approaching and is just right around the corner! And here we are again, facing what's in store for us as we flip the fresh pages in the book of life, whatever they may be. Are you ready to welcome 2024?
I decided to use clocks as concrete examples because they are probably the best metaphors of chronological events like the New Year, let alone their familiar siblings in the form of watches and other physical timepieces. Apart from simply being devices for timekeeping, these sophisticated mechanisms mark the crucial milestones of our human existence. Aren’t they?
Moreover, clocks remind me about the precious value of our momentary lives with each ticking sound of their hands echoing their fleeting nature. And in the grand scheme of creation, their constant whispers signify that we are only a tiny speck in the unfathomable vastness of the universe.
In spite of that stark comparison, it doesn't mean to say that we are worthless. In fact, we possess the power to change the world with our humble contributions. We have the choice to filter through the ocean of noise with our distinctive voices. We have the freedom to pursue the kind of legacy as we please. All these worthwhile actions are key to self-improvement, thereby benefiting other people and transforming our environment into a much better place.
As strange as it seems, clocks have become my personal friends and foes. Here's why. They're my allies because they serve as reliable companions during my life’s journey, keeping me updated on my current achievements. On the contrary, they're likewise my enemies because they tend to trigger feelings of guilt whenever I waste time, tempting me to soak in regretful emotions. Does this happen to you too?
Nevertheless, in an inevitably chaotic planet that we dwell in, time has provided a sense of order, structure, and system to my otherwise topsy-turvy habits. Therefore, I would rather consider it more of a friend than a foe, praising it as one of mankind's outstanding inventions.
Speaking of my friendly relationship with time, there are 2 valuable concepts that I'd like you to reflect on: the beginning of the end and the end of the beginning.
To receive 2024 with a positive atmosphere, it's my earnest desire that these 2 ageless ideas would inspire you to be always optimistic as well as energize you not only to accomplish your immediate goals, but also to keep dreaming bigger. There are no limits in your capabilities to reach your objectives, even though they may seem initially impossible.
First, nothing is permanent. Only change is. As ancient as this timeless truth is, there are laws of nature that are simply immutable - this is one of them. Unless you're God, its literally impossible to alter the fabric of time to manipulate occurrences that have already happened, isn't it? Okay, there are discussions that science might be able to reverse that reality, but until then, that still remains to be seen.
For instance, I used to be a perfectionist. This challenging attitude directly affected the way I was operating my decisions, organizing stuff, producing art, dealing with people, and managing time. As much as I wanted to be flawless, there were some opportunities that were merely beyond my control. These factors ultimately led to burnout. So, instead of exhausting myself to influence these realities, I just let them slide, allowing time to take its toll.
This new mindset made my projects less-stressful, my approaches more considerate, and my emotions much stronger with patience - hence improving my overall health.
What about you? What difficult changes have you encountered recently that molded you into a better individual?
Second, your efforts are not futile. Regardless of how small your endeavors are, you always need to start somewhere, right? And eventually, it’s only a matter of time before you would harvest the fruits of your labor.
I understand. There are a gazillion tasks to do nowadays. Eons ago, our lives used to be quite easy to manage with less activities. Besides, there were only a few concerns to tackle back then, thus decision-making wasn't an uphill struggle.
To demonstrate, my former self was a master complicator (if such a word exists). Whenever there were simpler solutions available, I seemed to have enjoyed solving problems by worsening them intentionally. This neurotic behavior slowed me down physically, added more stupidity than intelligence to my mentality, and brainwashed my perceptions with negativity. It was clearly a tough ride!
Anyway, I was truly fortunate enough to have engaged with real mentors who planted beneficial paradigm shifts in the majority of what I did. Not only did my social circles flourished, but I was able to reap productive rewards by embracing the KISS (Keep It Simple Stupid) routine.
What helpful processes have you adopted and practiced to enhance your personal development and catapult you towards greatness?
To wrap up, whether we like it or not, time will always be an everlasting constant. This may sound redundant, but that's just the way it is!
In other words, instead of controlling elements like time that are beyond your control, make the most of what has been allocated to you. Shouldn't you be grateful for the gift of life you're breathing today?
We are all bestowed with 24 hours a day, nothing more, nothing less. The only thing that stands between where you are now and where you want to be in the future is you - not money, not hardships, not excuses, not time. Only you!
Think about it.
May your 2024 be as prosperous, joyous, and filled with love as you design it to be. Happy New Year!!! ❤️🎉🍷
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