Your points are valid and very correct bro. Most times men think that whatever they most get they have to work for it, and they have to deserve it as well. it's like a rule, most men are just that way. Who will blame the man, the society has made it so. When they get any bit of love without putting in so much effort they believe the person has a very good heart, it's a default setting and we pick instant interest in the person, maybe not falling in love exactly but you'll want to know who's this, and why she's different.