It is said that only at the brink, will true actions kick in. There are many times one is tested in life, and it is your actions that affect the rest. Only, one cannot go through it alone. Familial and familiar relations is our reason for being. Then, that added flavor of breath, albeit, meaningful conversation, beautiful music, or the wind humming to you, brings that stimuli of mental nourishment.
It's essential to find that moment and say, "this is why I'm here."