You are so right. Sometimes the comment section is an amazing tutor, sometimes what seem like opposing views, can each have merit and give us a hybrid perspective which we can apply to our life. Also we are all unique, so one answer may work for one person and the opposite for another.

From your comment I see that you approach this like a student of ideas, this is exactly the right way, none of us have ALL of the answers, we can all learn from eachother, we all have different life-skills, lives and experiences.

If I live to be 100 I will still be a committed student of everything life has to offer.