Bukan teman, jika dia hanya sibuk mendekat saat kita sehat, kaya, berkecukupan dan tertawa, tapi kabur menghilang saat kita miskin, jatuh, dan punya masalah. Bantu mendoakan saja, sesuatu yang mudah sekali dilakukan, dia pura-pura lupa.
Bukan teman, jika dia hanya cengengesan sok akrab saat ada maunya, tapi lenyap ditelan bumi saat maunya sudah beres, dan tidak butuh lagi.
Sungguh bukan teman, orang-orang yang berkerubung karena manis lezatnya sesuatu, semangat mendukung, tapi bilang tidak kenal saat tinggal pahit getahnya.
Tidak perlu melirik orang lain. Tidak perlu asyik menilai orang lain. Karena boleh jadi kitalah pelakunya.
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Not friends, if he's just busy approaching when we're healthy, rich, affluent and laughing, but fading away when we're poor, falling, and having problems. Help to pray, something that is easy to do, he pretended to forget.
Not a friend, if he's just a quasi-familiar snob when he wants to, but disappears swallowed by the earth when he wants it done, and does not need any more.
Really not friends, people who are cloaked because of the sweetness of something delicious, the spirit of support, but say do not know when live bitter sap.
No need to glance at other people. No need to judge others. Because we may be the culprits.
