I see similar traits in me as far as your dishwasher incident is concerned....but i have understood that not everyone has same sense or approach and cant be disciplined as I can be. or different individuals have different approach. so I took on my self to correct any mess around, rather than expecting others to do

Make good decisions, not bad habits.

I like this quotes a lot , worth to share our to next generation kids. however good decision does not comes in a day, a kid could learn from bad decision, It is important to keep an watchful eye till they develop good habits and learned from their bad decision.