If I'm to advise, I'll say it's not so cool for a young lady to live alone before getting married. Before you misconstrue my statement, I acknowledge that a young independent girl can live alone on her own, all by herself because she can foot her own bills.
My perspective is this, it's not so healthy for her. It is always good to have a relative, a guardian, a friend that you're pairing up with as a single Lady. It reduces the number of challenges from the opposite sex. Personally, I know battles I've won not because I'm so strong but because I'm living with a loving family.
No guy visits me, no unnecessary familiarity, no excesses, no keeping of late nights except when work and vehicular traffic makes it unavoidable. I think living with someone or even with a friend helps to put one's morality in check too.
I don't club...but at a point, some guys invited me to Quilox club. I was given the I.V. already, I know I don't club but the pressure was so much. Immediately I told them I'm living with a family and can't sleep outside, the whole pressure ended instantly.
This is me who feels I don't really have to club, but consistent pressure made me want to consider. I was told to just come and look around. It was so enticing for a fun loving person like me. But who knows what I would have done if I was alone.
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I'm speaking from experience. I don't know if my opinion is right on wrong, but it has really helped me in this No man's land.
For someone asking for my perspective, I decided to throw my answer open. I believe it will help someone.
