The easiest way to get out of a victim mindset is to realise that you alone are the captain of your life and no one else .
Everyone is just revealing you to you and teaching you. So if someone says or does something that hurts you, turn it inwards.
Why are you offended or hurt or angry? What was triggered in You? Focus on that and what good you get out of it in terms of growth, rather than the other person and what they have done.
Elevate from that. Next time the same thing wont hurt you. You have grown. See? It's all you. Not another.
Take everything as a teacher and everything in love and everything as for your ultimate good. Observe all, learn from all, embrace all.
@stargreen