This is my entry to the Hive Learners weekly contest.
This divorce is one thing that really has an effect sometimes all around. It seems to really be bringing great problems in this life. Who is affected?? In this scenario, I would not say that it is only one side that is affected; the parents involved in it are likewise affected, and the children are really affected in one way or the other. This is really not easy on anyone, and we hope that it really stops.
It really can be heartbreaking as two lovely couples who love and cherish each other now turn into cats and rats and try really hard to separate against all talks. In much of the advice from people, their minds are already made up, and now they want to go their separate ways. This separation is now going against what the church said: Together forever till death does them apart. This is really not easy on anyone. They might act strong, but still remembering the happy moments, it's still a phase. They are really trying for whatever good that might come out. Now there is no condonement; that which one might be tolerating is now not easy, and putting a stop is what he or she really wants to do.
The children also on the other ends is not easy for them, as the lovely parents are no longer like that. Also, that togetherness in which the family is really not there. In a family where parents are no longer living together, the effect of the togetherness on the children might also be showing, as each might go with one parent, maybe making the bond not to be there.
This question in this is really caught in between lines. Should parents or children decide who should go first and who should go last? To me, parents' responsibility in ethics is very, very crucial: to take good care of their children. They really should try to bring up their children in the right way of the Lord. In a family with no peace, violence, lack of love, and all that, it also might have its negative effect on the children.
It is really not easy for everyone, but all still should be put into consideration. All these negative things are not easy for them, and is it ok to continue training them in such environments? In separation, in which they are now staying apart for the most time. I would feel that still now having them in a positive way of love would really be better and have the very best good effect on them.
This is just a hard opinion, as all really need maximum attention, care, and support in life. That of the parents should really not be avoided and prevented, while also that which is needed by the children should always not be neglected, as all, by God's grace, should always be put in place.
All should really be put in place to work in good of all by God's Grace 馃檹 馃檹.
We keep hoping for the best.
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