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We ignore things and hope for it to go away,it will never
You need to forgive so you can be free,forgive so you can be happy,forgive so you can get out of bondage,you are not just forgiving for the other but for yourself,forgiving is a choice not an option
When you hold unto unforgiveness and live in grudges in your heart,all you do is build a wall of separation, you might think you are protecting yourself but No you are not,you are shutting people out of your lives,you become isolated,alone,pained, bittered, wrapped and imprisoned by your own bitterness, you cage down yourself, those walls of separation aren't just merely keeping people out,those walls are keeping you penned in,tear the wall down
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Everyday you realize you want to make a step forward but something keeps holding you down,this becomes a poison to your heart and soul, this contaminate your inner self. You might think about what they did to you and how deep it got to you badly but No do it for yourself
If you truly wanna be free quit holding that junk unto your life,forgive the people who hurt you so you can get out of that prison,get the bitterness out of your life, let it go,don't let the root of bitterness continue to bitter your life,you can't change the fruit if nothing is done on the root.
Solowire