The bigger the choice is , the more importance we attribute to it.
We assume that every choice ( whenever we have to weigh the facts and feelings in an attempt to get to the right thing to do) contains a good result and a bad result.
If you looked at a choice and clearly saw that one option was better than the other, the choice would not be difficult. It’s very simple and a straight forward decision you made from the choices available.
Hard choices are difficult because no option seems to be superior to the other. When confronted with a difficult decision like these;
- Should you start your own company or stay in your current job?
- Pick investment X over investment Y?
- Should I continue or break up a relationship?
Big decisions like these can be agonizingly difficult. But that’s because we think about them the wrong way,
says Philosopher and former lawyer, Ruth Chang.