I call BS, you would be an excellent Dad! Whomever said that is an Idiot...ignore them!!!! Any kid you had would have a blast, and learn all they need to be a prison to be proud of!

One option is to find one that needs you, and bring them home. My wife was adopted, and I thank GOD that her parents brought her home!

BTW, That Idiot, avoid their company...permanently; they have no input you need!