I am balls deep in VR nowdays can't get myself playing desktop games anymore. But it is so addicted lol. And I was of those that said that vr would suck. The good thing about vr is you can't play more than a couple hours per day so I tunnel my creativity way more productive than playing games.

My suggestion for you and your bro wait for Cyberpunk 2077 to release and go for that one. It is going to be epic.