Those with positive reasoning, always sees a way of encouragement, even when it seems discouraging.
"There's a Chinese proverb that says; "wisdom is avoiding all thoughts that weaken you and embarrass those that strengthen you." Your mind is like a Ferrari(or your favorite car). It's awesome!... But if you put sand in the gas tank, it won't run. Don't put sand(negativity) in your mind. Reason positive, encouraging, uplifting reasonings, and the negative will soon evaporate.