My life has been a testament to the help of Men sent by God in different stages of my life.
What defines a Man is that He will always need help in one way or another.
In all these stages of life, I have observed the following hindrances that close the door of help against folks.
Men can not help you for the following reasons:
YOU ARE TOO DEPENDENT ON THEM:
Too much of you in the presence of men is a sickness to them.
Let there be a time when you give men their space and you use that time to build your trust, confidence, and dependence on God.
THE ARE NOT SEEING THE RESULTS OF THE FORMER INVESTMENT THEY INVESTED IN YOU:
The motivation of Men is in the results they can see; living a life of no results is a closed door to help.
YOU ARE NOT GROWING:
Men expect that when you receive help, it should be a vehicle you use to move yourself from one level of life to another. As a Baby who reaches the age to start moving but fails to move is a burden and concern to his/her parents, so his a man who is not growing to men who expect that from him.
YOU ARE ALWAYS UNGRATEFUL:
There is no little in qualifying help, every help is as big in level; thus, when you fail to be grateful for the little things men are doing for you, then they cannot do what you think is big.
Every big thing starts from small things.
YOU ARE NOT PRAYING FOR THEM:
Your failure to pray for the men God is using to help you can be the reason they cannot help you.
When you do not pray for them and problems of life overtake them, they will look away from you and look unto themselves.
YOU ARE CARELESS AND OF BAD CHARACTER:
When Men see how you use their wealth in an unrighteous way, they will vow never to give to you again.
When they see that you are worthless in character, they will close their bowl of help until you change. Do not be deceived, even the bad people like good people with character.
WHEN YOU ARE PROUD: A proud man can not receive help from God as well as men.
When you feel you do not need anybody to succeed then nobody wants to help you succeed
YOU ARE INSULTING :
When you insult everyone that comes your way, then you will not spark your destiny's helper.
WHEN YOU ARE PURPOSELESS: When you appear purposeless in life, men retire from helping.
This is the very point everyone has to establish a relationship with their Maker so He/she can get to a place where their purpose is unveiled to him/her.
Purpose begins with God, and ends with God.
That is why Jesus is called the light of the world- He gives meaning and purpose to men.
