Watch out!! When a man is under sexual fire, he can tell and profess you any thing you want to hear to get you horny for him to digest!
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He may start by telling you
- you are the most beautiful woman of all creation in the world with the hottest, sexiest body
- Or your voice sounds like the voice of Beyonce that can force the president to follow you. though every one knows you as a person have a masculine voice!
- He may suddenly become a great and best actor, say all manner and kind of prayers and even speak in tongues! - If he noticed that his effort is not working, he may burst into tears and even accuse you of wanting to kill him!
- He may even says you do not love him other wise you will prove it by making love to him!
- If that still didn't work well for him, he may beg you, prostrate flat on the floor and swear before God and all the demons that ever existed in hell he would never dump you, "just this bit of your cake once, this once!" he cried!
You started sympathizing with him and let him have his way.
and what do you think will happens after he's through? knowing that His hormones are out the window and he couldn't just believe he had sex with trash! Yes, you heard me right!!
you trashy! Disgusting! Rubbish! Annoying! Irritating! Nauseating thing!!!
He never tells you that though.
He still out of pretence, smiles at you, profess he loves you, he would never leave you or forsake you, blah blah until you tell him you missed your period( pregnant).
see how all hell breaks loose!
He said, "You either take the bastard you are carrying to the owner or you go hug nearby transformer!
You couldn't believe wha your ears are hearing! You still couldn't believe the idiot weeping and begging you to go down with him a few weeks ago could open his dirty smelling mouth and utter such blasphemy!
Well, If he was the "lucky" guy who deflowered you and had a little bit of basic home training, he may accept the pregnancy, put you in his cage( father's compound ) and go look for another fool to climb and deceive!
Now, listen and hear me out:
sex is not a proof or signs of love. If you not yet married and you are having sex, you lost your dignity by 80%, you read that right, 80%! No man has value for something he didn't sweat to get. If it's too easy and cheap it's not valuable!
I can't count the number of women who are weeping, crying, regretting and hurting and feeling bad because their husbands do not respect and value them for a bit, they didn't give him the reason to do so when they were courting.
When he is done and dusted with you, you will be the one doing the chase in stead of him! You feel now that you've had sex he will be committed, says who?
Lets be realistic Why in the name of God will he be committed to a brainless girl who has no simple regard for her body?**
What value will you claim you have added to him? How do you think that the sex added a single value to his life?
Men are logical beings in nature!!!
When it comes to achieving great results, they don't allow emotions get inbetween their way
but not so for you girl! You are an emotional being in nature to the core and easily get attached to a man. Making matter Worse, you released oxytocin during sex and there is an unseen ( invisible) rope pulling you closer to him, that rope is soul tie.
You need deliverance to get out of such dirty relationship!
Here is the bottom line :
- Show and have respect for yourself. - Treat yourself with pure dignity you deserved
- Don't be too easy to get to avoid had i know,
- please, don't jump at men or throw yourself to them.
It feels okay to make friends, have a man you love, it's okay to be engaged to him but it's not okay to be involved in pre-marital sex with him.